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What is love (Maya)? It is one
of the most difficult questions for the mankind. Centuries have passed by, relationships
have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of love.
To some Love is friendship set on fire for others Maybe love is like luck. You
have to go all the way to find it. No matter how you define it or feel it, love
is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. Love is patient, love is
kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. It rejoices
over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for
the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it.
It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true. Love can occur between
two or more individuals. It bonds them and connects them in a unified link of
trust, intimacy and interdependence. It enhances the relationship and comforts
the soul. Love should be experienced and not just felt. The depth of love can
not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother
loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different
dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love
can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If
this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have
some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe. And as God said
?Love all? Depending on context, love can be of different varieties. Romantic
love is a deep, intense and unending. It shared on a very intimate and interpersonal
and sexual relationship. The term Platonic love, familial love and religious love
are also matter of great affection. It is more of desire, preference and feelings.
The meaning of love will
change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth,
versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned.
Some say it is false and meaningless. It says that it never exist, because there
has been many instances of hatred and brutality in relationships. The history
of our world has witnessed many such events. There has been hatred between brothers,
parents and children, sibling rivalry and spouses have failed each other. Friends
have betrayed each other; the son has killed his parents for the throne, the count
is endless. Even the modern generation is also facing with such dilemmas everyday.
But ?love? is not responsible for that. It is us, the people, who have forgotten
the meaning of love and have undertaken such gruesome apathy. In the past
the study of philosophy and religion has done many speculations on the phenomenon
of love. But love has always ruled, in music, poetry, paintings, sculptor and
literature. Psychology has also done lot of dissection to the essence of love,
just like what biology, anthropology and neuroscience has also done to it. Psychology portrays love as a cognitive phenomenon
with a social cause. It is said to have three components in the book of psychology:
Intimacy, Commitment, and Passion. Also, in an ancient proverb love is defined
as a high form of tolerance. And this view has been accepted and advocated by
both philosophers and scholars. Love also includes compatibility. But it is more
of journey to the unknown when the concept of compatibility comes into picture.
Maybe the person whom we see in front of us, may be least compatible than the
person who is miles away. We might talk to each other and portray that we love
each other, but practically we do not end up into any relationship. Also in compatibility,
the key is to think about the long term successful relationship, not a short journey.
We need to understand each other and must always remember that no body is perfect.
Be together, share your joy and sorrow, understand each other, provide
space to each other, but always be there for each others need. And surely love
will blossom to strengthen your relationship with your matter of affection.
Love all, trust a few, do wrong to none. William
Shakespeare.
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